Becoming the Pastor's WifeBecoming the Pastor's Wife

As a pastor's wife for twenty-five years, Beth Allison Barr has lived with assumptions about what she should do and who she should be. Barr draws on that experience and her expertise as a historian to trace the history of the role of the pastor's wife, showing how it both helped and hurt women in conservative Protestant traditions. While they gained an important leadership role, it came at a deep cost: losing independent church leadership opportunities that existed throughout most of church history and strengthening a gender hierarchy that prioritized male careers. By blending historical and personal narrative, Barr equips pastors' wives to better advocate for themselves while helping the church understand the origins of the role as well as the historical reality of ordained women.